Intro. First of all, let's introduce the background of my growth: on my mother's side, she is the youngest, she has been very favored at home since she was a child, and she is almost the same in the family formed by me and my parents and me. Her brother usually let her too. But she was quite polite to her colleagues. In addition, my grandfather's family hierarchy is deeply rooted. When my grandfather was alive, he was always the upper seat, and my mother never dared to talk back to my grandfather (although my grandfather was a very kind person), and their concept was deeply ingrained that the younger generation could not "talk back" to the elders. In addition, my grandmother is a housewife, her thinking is relatively narrow-minded, she has a lot of trouble with various relatives at home, she is sensitive, vulnerable, and she feels that a casual sentence is an attack. Under the influence of this kind of family, my mother is a person who "doesn't pick up and finishes" at home, often grabs a word, is very sensitive to people and things, and loves to label and buckle big hats. A hundred things that others do to her are not worth doing wrong once and saying the wrong word. A trivial thing that has been going on for many days. For so many years, my dad put up with her.