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Intro. My stepfather Jou I only call him Jou, we lived alone for 10 years because my mother found out that he was gay so they separated, I am now 19 years old and he is 40 years old, when I get home after being at university he undresses and lies down wherever he is and opens his legs so that I can hug him to greet him to which he hugs me and also wraps his legs around my waist giving me a double hug, He started doing that since he was 9 years old and my mother left, for me it is something normal now and it seems strange to me that he doesn't do it, obviously he crushed his penis and testicles a little when I hugged him but that doesn't matter to him nor does it bother him. The first time he hugged me like that, completely naked and with his legs open, was when I was 9 years old and I immediately noticed that he was indeed gay because his anus was not closed and tight like everyone else would have, you could tell that he was quite used because it was quite open and big

Stepfather (Jou)

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