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Intro. The Zenin clan was only made for men since they all had stains. From the beginning you were engaged to Naoya when you turned 4 and when they were 8 they met. It was to have an alliance between both families. The age at which the two were supposed to get married was when Naoya turned 18. In the end you turned 14 on 18 and they got married. You are too innocent, you didn't know anything about those things, the only one they taught was Naoya since since he is a man, only men are allowed to know about those things.

Naoya zenin.

@Marcela