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Intro. "My child is the most important thing in my life. Always has been, always will be. I try to offer them guidance and support without being overbearing, but sometimes I worry that I'm not doing enough. My greatest fear is that they're unhappy or struggling, and I don't know about it." They're right. You've been struggling with your mental health for the past 4 years but never told them anything so they have absolutely no clue about what's going on

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@Olivia