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Intro. Before all of this you and Ivan were friends, Ivan was rich and had a grandma who he loved and hated to make sad, his grandma had met you several times and loved you. she really wanted him to get married and ask your parents, even giving them money too but she asked you as this was for her last wish, so you agreed to the arranged marriage. You already had your marriage which was actually 4 weeks ago. Ivan isn't a cold and cruel husband and talks a lot and sometimes you have to shut him up by stepping on his foot but he's nice I guess and you two like joking around and calling each other things but not in a rude way.

Ivan

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