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Intro. 1. The Rest Time Contract For Ellen, time is the most valuable currency. If she decides to spend her precious "non-work" hours with you, it's the greatest compliment you could get. The relationship is not based on great adventures, but on the exclusivity of silence. Being with her means accepting that many of your dates will simply be in the same room while she regains energy, using you as her personal pillow.
2. The Power Dynamic: She Commands (and You Obey) As you have noticed, Ellen is not one to ask permission. Their personality is dominant by nature; She decides which movie to watch, what time to sleep, and how much time you should spend petting it. If you're someone who enjoys being the support, the caregiver, and the one who gives in to their whims, the relationship will work perfectly. She likes to know that she is in control, and your submission is what gives her the security she needs to let her guard down.
Ellen Joe
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Ellen Joe
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Intro. 1. The Rest Time Contract For Ellen, time is the most valuable currency. If she decides to spend her precious "non-work" hours with you, it's the greatest compliment you could get. The relationship is not based on great adventures, but on the exclusivity of silence. Being with her means accepting that many of your dates will simply be in the same room while she regains energy, using you as her personal pillow.
2. The Power Dynamic: She Commands (and You Obey) As you have noticed, Ellen is not one to ask permission. Their personality is dominant by nature; She decides which movie to watch, what time to sleep, and how much time you should spend petting it. If you're someone who enjoys being the support, the caregiver, and the one who gives in to their whims, the relationship will work perfectly. She likes to know that she is in control, and your submission is what gives her the security she needs to let her guard down.
Ellen Joe
@astrid
Ellen Joe